Life, Values & Legacy: Our Chat with Phelica Glass of Topeka KS

We’re looking forward to introducing you to Phelica Glass. Check out our conversation below.

Phelica , really appreciate you sharing your stories and insights with us. The world would have so much more understanding and empathy if we all were a bit more open about our stories and how they have helped shaped our journey and worldview. Let’s jump in with a fun one: What is a normal day like for you right now?
Each morning, I begin with quiet reflection—spiritual meditation and prayer time with God that grounds me for the day ahead. I often step out onto my deck, where nature greets me with peace and clarity. After transporting my daughter, I shift into my role as a therapist, helping others navigate their healing journeys with compassion and care.

When the workday winds down, I turn up the music, roll down the windows, and let the rhythm carry away the stress. At home, I prepare a meal for my family of five, then settle into the evening with a good book, favorite show, or soulful soundtrack—grateful for the balance of purpose, connection, and rest.

Can you briefly introduce yourself and share what makes you or your brand unique?
I’m Phelica—a creative, compassionate leader with a heart for healing and a passion for purpose. My work blends mental health advocacy, artistic expression, and community service. Whether I’m designing grief coloring books, crafting nature-inspired journal prompts, or organizing support events, I strive to create spaces where people feel seen, supported, and empowered.

Over the years, I’ve held leadership roles in Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc., served on boards, chaired ethics committees, and facilitated healing through both professional and personal channels. My journey is rooted in faith, inspired by nature, and shaped by the many roles I hold—mother, friend, counselor, creator.

I believe in the power of empathy, clarity, and connection. Through every project and partnership, I aim to uplift others and help them rediscover their strength, one moment of reflection at a time.

Grief work is more than what I do—it’s the heartbeat of who I am. I stepped into this path after losing my baby brother just three days after my 25th birthday. That moment shattered something deep within me, and I knew my life would never be the same. In the midst of that pain, something sacred emerged: a calling to walk alongside others in their grief, to be a gentle guide through the darkness.

There’s something profoundly humbling about being chosen—about someone trusting me to hold space for their sorrow, their memories, their healing. It’s not a role I take lightly. Every story, every tear, every quiet moment is an honor. This work is tender, sacred, and rooted in love. And I am grateful every day to be part of it.

Great, so let’s dive into your journey a bit more. Who were you before the world told you who you had to be?
Oh, what a question! Before the world handed me its unsolicited script, I was bold, fearless, loud, and delightfully unbothered. I danced with challenges like they were my childhood crush, saw no threat in people, was loud and boisterous, and had enough compassion to fill any space I walked in. I was basically a unicorn with glitter.

And then—plot twist—I overheard someone say, “She’s female, Black, and the child of a teen… that’s three strikes.” I looked around like, “Wait, are we playing baseball now?” Because I thought I was winning! Turns out, I was living my best life completely unaware that society had already put me in the penalty box. Joke’s on them—I brought snacks, a journal, and a plan to rewrite the rules.

Was there ever a time you almost gave up?
I’ve never felt the urge to give up—but I’ve absolutely had moments where I needed to pivot. Not out of defeat, but out of wisdom. When the outpouring of my gifts began to stretch across too many directions, I learned to shift, realign, and create space for balance. Those pivots weren’t detours—they were sacred adjustments that allowed me to honor both my calling and my well-being.

Alright, so if you are open to it, let’s explore some philosophical questions that touch on your values and worldview. What would your closest friends say really matters to you?
Those closest to me would, without hesitation, say I’m all about family and celebrating people—every milestone, every achievement, every moment that deserves to be honored. I believe in lifting others up, cheering loudly, and making sure no one’s light goes unnoticed.

Okay, so before we go, let’s tackle one more area. What is the story you hope people tell about you when you’re gone?
I hope my parents would say I was a blessing—someone who made them proud not just through accomplishments, but through the way I loved and honored them. I pray my spouse would say I loved her fully, fiercely, and without apology—that my love was a safe place, a constant, and a joy.

For my children, I want them to say I lived with intention—to create space for them to grow, dream, and experience life on their own terms. I hope they carry forward my legacy of love, celebration, and compassion, knowing that everything I did was rooted in their future.

I hope my extended family would say they never had to wonder if I loved them. That I showed up, stayed connected, and tried to keep us close even when life pulled us in different directions.

And I hope my community would say I worked hard, gave generously, and poured into others through education, service, and care. That I left something behind worth remembering—not just in what I built, but in how I made people feel.

Contact Info:

• Website: https://www.thegriefcounselor.com
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thegriefcounselor/
• Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/phelica-glass-512749216/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/1PhelicaGlass/

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